You did the vision board. You policed your mind for negative thoughts. You did daily 4-minute visualizations. And still…crickets. The Universe seems silent in response. There’s no Maserati. No overflowing bank account. No perfect partner. This happens to everyone. It’s …
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“What we expect, we experience,” all the spiritual traditions say. But what, then, explains bad service at an expensive, fancy restaurant, where you go expecting the best? Or not getting the promotion/client/job when we were clearly the most qualified? And …
What we expect, we experience. This is a tricky, often aggravating, truth. When a car broadsided my Miata years ago, I could swear I was not expecting it. Nor was I expecting past illnesses, divorce, or particular job challenges. Let’s …
I cannot deny that I occasionally use cusswords. There is something about a well-placed and well-timed expletive. Well, I like to think so anyway. But, if you pay attention, you will find there is a word I very rarely use: …
Be very, very careful. The seeds of the coming year are being planted in your psyche right now. Your deepest thoughts will take root and sprout forth as surely as Spring will follow Winter. Look closely: are you planting weeds …
I have a pill for you. It’s a Happy Pill. I’ll set it right here in front of you. You can choose to take it at any time. Let me tell you its conditions and side effects so you can …
You have a choice of mentalities in life: scarcity or abundance. What you choose to dwell on, you will experience. So let’s talk about how we can create a habit of experiencing abundance. “Habit” is a little word with a …
Your life experiences have led you to possess a certain set of expectations. And then these expectations color your view. They become the filter through which you experience life, thus reinforcing your expectations. This is a natural, though very limiting, …
I want to enjoy my holidays–all the fun and frivolity–without weight gain. And I don’t want to wage a constant battle against my psyche to do it (no fun!). Here is my simple, effective, auto-pilot plan for managing my appetitive, …
J broke her collar bone. What made her agree to her husband’s invitation to ride an ATV after having no interest all the other times? And what made him keep asking? And what brought them to another part of the …